tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post112903228106212173..comments2024-01-18T03:37:05.392-05:00Comments on • CLEW'S BLUES •: False Sense of Securityclewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11160166319971765227noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129177813684688912005-10-13T00:30:00.000-04:002005-10-13T00:30:00.000-04:00I've been thinking about this so much since I read...I've been thinking about this so much since I read it. I can't really articulate all that I'm feeling...<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry for your loss...and for her beautiful children.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05334129707341089450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129123806520587732005-10-12T09:30:00.000-04:002005-10-12T09:30:00.000-04:00Wow. What a sad story. People are too quick some...Wow. What a sad story. People are too quick sometimes to judge that they "would never let that happen to them." When in reality it is never as simple and easy as it seems looking in on the outside. Her poor children.Twisted Cinderellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14273548648344779210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129078894440875762005-10-11T21:01:00.000-04:002005-10-11T21:01:00.000-04:00I've been thinking a lot. I suppose that you might...I've been thinking a lot. I suppose that you might think that abandoned you. But not. Here I am again! <BR/>I was clearing my mind, about life. In all my years I've been through a lot -some people might consider that maybe to much- and I could end up like a mad man, a bad person. But in the end God was always there, watching me, protecting me. He's the only certainty and you can hear it -or not, that's a choice-, that inner voice, that intuition -you may call it- but he's always there. Probably I'm gonna contradict you on this one. But is our responsibility to look out carefully who you are marrying to. I know, Who wouldn't know he might become a bad person?<BR/>God will help you that's undeniable, but you have to look yourself from evil.<BR/>God be with you in all your paths,<BR/>Salute!:)Emit-Flestihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05820232040841158107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129066447175728782005-10-11T17:34:00.000-04:002005-10-11T17:34:00.000-04:00Man that is terrible. Other then Satan what could...Man that is terrible. Other then Satan what could possibly possess these guys that want another person so bad they surrender their sanity? <BR/><BR/>I was divorced after 5 years when I was in my twenties and was hurt badly but could not even imagine wanting to possess the other person in the divorce. <BR/><BR/>I have told my friends over the years who have went through break ups that its best to move on and the other side spells freedom. So get over her and find your freedom.Piratehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08376248135574964070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129056104283946252005-10-11T14:41:00.000-04:002005-10-11T14:41:00.000-04:00And in the telling of my own story, I hope it didn...And in the telling of my own story, I hope it didn't get lost how very sorry I am for your friend, for her children, and for the many, many families who face this terrible thing.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16600646161985648267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129054248232471672005-10-11T14:10:00.000-04:002005-10-11T14:10:00.000-04:00It is staggering to know the statistics regarding ...It is staggering to know the statistics regarding husband to wife violence. Abuse isn't only physical, it's psychological and emotional as well - and you're absolutely right that women who suffer from it shouldn't be stereotyped. It can happen to anyone. Anyone at all who has the capacity of loving another human being has the capacity of being emotionally manipulated and abused on all levels. It's so scary because you marry someone who is supposed to be your partner for life, your shelter from the storm...and when they're the one you need shelter from, it's difficult to know where to turn, or to make the move to do it. I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. And I'm even sorrier for her children who not only don't have a father or a mother - but who will have scars internally that will alter them forever.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00747583945280534950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129051963452555852005-10-11T13:32:00.000-04:002005-10-11T13:32:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I was mar...I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I was married to a violent man, and while the physical violence did not get too very high, it would have had I not left. The verbal and emotional abuse was frightening. Restraining orders do not protect us, and like many mothers I am forced by our broken court system to send my son back into that house every other weekend. And I am a normal, well-educated woman who had not experienced this kind of evil until I had known this man for some time- he was so kind and charming at first. I can not talk about it on my own site, because the courts are not kind to moms who make such "accusations." Bless you for talking about it here. We should be screaming about this in the streets. Instead, we are threatened into deeper silence.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16600646161985648267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129042803529873162005-10-11T11:00:00.000-04:002005-10-11T11:00:00.000-04:00Clew, you have experienced way too many bad things...Clew, you have experienced way too many bad things in your lifetime. Hugs to you my dear friend for having the willingness to keep your heart open. XOMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13474426124497486683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14484567.post-1129039614906353422005-10-11T10:06:00.000-04:002005-10-11T10:06:00.000-04:00This kind of thing happens more often than we real...This kind of thing happens more often than we realize and it shouldn't happen at all! It is a terrible shame and waste of human lives....and this woman's children may never emotionally recover from what they have been forced to witness.Martiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18049225962948888764noreply@blogger.com